Let’s put it this way; if you are reading this, you have probably already decided you may need some help writing your wedding vows. That’s a good start. Your wedding day is arguably one of the best days of your life. It is the time when you stand before family and friends as you hold your true love’s hand and tell them why you want to marry them. As a couple, you have decided to make this day unique and personal, reflecting your love for each other in a romantic and intimate style.
No pressure. (Ok, maybe a little pressure.)
Deciding to hire a wedding vow writer.
In 90% of couples, the decision to hire a wedding vow writer comes after selecting the wedding venue, photographer, music, cake, and honeymoon. Once the couple decides how and where they will be married, the topic of wedding vows comes to light. So does fear, anxiety, and an overwhelming desire to elope.
Hiring a wedding vow writer is commonplace today. Custom vows written to reflect your love for each other will be remembered for the rest of your marriage. Using a wedding vow writer eliminates the stress of crafting your own vows. Once the wedding vows are written, we can work together to practice the delivery, so on that day, there will be no stress and no surprises—just a romantic and beautiful statement of love.
How do wedding vow writers make the vows personal?
As a wedding vow writer, it is my pleasure to spend time with each of you and learn about you to get a genuine feeling of you as a couple. Every couple is different and so are their wedding vows. We chat about you, how you met, when you fell in love, and the moment you experienced that ‘utz’ in your stomach that told you they were the one.
I have been married for 32 years, and I vividly remember my wedding day. The laser focus I had on his face and the look in his eyes when he said I do. Back then, very few couples wrote their own vows, so we opted for the traditional, speak now or forever hold your peace. My goal is to make your wedding vows personal and meaningful to you.
What does a wedding vow writer charge?
The fees for writing wedding vows range from a few hundred dollars to a thousand dollars should you require the best man and maid of honor speeches also to be written. Once we have our initial meeting, the process and fees will be established, and we can begin!
No one needs to know you hired a wedding vow writer.
Wedding planners assist couples with selecting every aspect of the wedding and reception, from silverware and linens to flowers. Yet, few couples would share the fact that they hired a wedding vow writer. There is a stigma that asking for help with this essential part of the ceremony can be perceived as a handoff for someone else to do. In reality, it is a brilliant decision to engage a professional writer to capture your persona, your emotions, and your relationship into the vows. Wedding vow writers are coaches, in a sense. If done right, your guests will never know that someone other than the two of you could write anything so personal and intimate.
Let’s connect for a call or virtual meeting to chat about your wedding day and all that you want it to be. Together, we will capture your love and thoughts and create your wedding vows in your words.