Obituaries and Eulogies

I am sorry you have come to this page.

I am sorry you lost someone who you loved.

To lose a loved one is a devastating experience. Anyone who has gone through this will tell you how horrific it can be. I can attest to the pain of the loss of my husband, Chip, who suddenly passed away in July 2021.

I understand the feelings you are experiencing and will do my best to create a eulogy or obituary in your words, that highlights the beautiful life of the person you have lost. Together we can do it.

Writing is not everyone’s strong suit, and trying to write when you have lost a loved one can magnify the challenge of putting your thoughts and feelings into words.

As your obituary or eulogy writer, I will work with you to learn about your lost loved one. I will help you craft a memorial to tell their life story. I will ensure people who read the obituary or listen to the eulogy know the world has lost someone special.

Knowing your loved ones and putting their life into words would be my honor. Reach out with any questions or if you would like to schedule a consultation

Who typically writes an obituary?

There is no hard and fast rule on who should write the obituary. The decision is typically made by the closest family members, who knew the deceased best and were capable and willing to write the obituary.

If a family member or friend is uncomfortable or bereaved, the funeral director may offer to write the obituary. Many funeral homes offer to write the obituary using a standard format, which is a nice option.

Hiring an obituary writer is the best of both worlds. First, an obituary writer will work with you to learn about your lost loved one. Then, they help you craft a memorial to tell their life story fully and ensure people who read the obituary know that the world has lost your family member and who they were.

Who typically writes an obituary?

There is no hard and fast rule on who should write the obituary. The decision is typically made by the closest family members, who knew the deceased best and were capable and willing to write the obituary.

If a family member or friend is uncomfortable or bereaved, the funeral director may offer to write the obituary. Many funeral homes offer to write the obituary using a standard format, which is a nice option.

Hiring an obituary writer is the best of both worlds. First, an obituary writer will work with you to learn about your lost loved one. Then, they help you craft a memorial to tell their life story fully and ensure people who read the obituary know that the world has lost your family member and who they were.

What is the difference between a eulogy and an obituary?

A eulogy is a speech publicly delivered at funerals. An obituary is a brief biography of the person who has died and is published online or in a newspaper. The obituary announces the details of the funeral service. Some parts of the obituary can be used in the eulogy. Obituaries are written, and eulogies are spoken.

Social media platforms are often used to share funeral arrangements via the obituary and talk about the deceased’s life by posting the eulogy.

Can I hire an obituary writer for my obituary before I die?

Yes, and many people do! I was shocked that my mother wrote her obituary years ago. She just passed away right before Christmas, and we found the obituary in her handwriting-it was beautiful. It’s funny that she didn’t entrust the process to her copywriting daughter. That made it all the better!

How much does it cost to hire an obituary writer?

Writing an obituary can vary from $175 to $400.  A good obituary writer will not send you a questionnaire to complete. Instead, they will engage with you to hear your voice and your thoughts and feelings about their loved one. Remember that newspaper publication costs can range from $175 to upwards of $400 based on the number of lines and if you supply a picture.